I was lucky that Mr. Buttcheeks and I regularly told people who asked - before we were even engaged - that when we did get married, we would have a very small wedding. Even then, my parents still 'accidentally' invited people to the wedding that were not initially on the list. there are too many feelings and… » 6/29/14 3:30pm 6/29/14 3:30pm

We're spending about $15k on ours, 1/3 of which will be covered by my mother. It's a destination wedding (but relatively local, on a nearby island but people will have to stay overnight) in a place that is very special to us. We're only having 40 guests, but we're trying to make their trip pretty special so we're… » 6/10/14 11:53am 6/10/14 11:53am